Thank you for sharing this. This breaks it down so well. It saddens and enrages me that so many of us feel lucky that nothing "worse" happened when what actually happened was unacceptable and we have to deal with the effects and the memories and that there are people who don't seem to get that or understand not saying anything and how their attitude contributes to that. But it makes me glad to see people standing up and saying that it's not OK and that we will back each other up.